Autism Family Counselors Fremont CA

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Happy Talkers
(925) 829-9555
7567 Amador Valley Blvd., Ste. 210
Dublin, CA
Support Services
Early Intervention, Marriage & Family Counseling, Occupational Therapy, Social Skills Training, Support Organization, Training/Seminars

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San Francisco Bay Area Autism Society
(650) 637-7772
P.O. Box 1207
San Carlos, CA
Support Services
Disability Advocacy, Marriage & Family Counseling, Support Organization

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Schwab Learning
(650) 655-2410
1650 S. Amphlett Blvd., Suite 300
San Mateo, CA
Support Services
Marriage & Family Counseling, Other, Support Organization

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Special Family Counseling (Michelle M. Wolfson)
(760) 431-1819
6353 El Camino Real, Ste. K
Carlsbad, CA
Support Services
Marriage & Family Counseling, Other, Therapy Providers

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Autism Society of America, Santa Barbara Chapter
(805) 560-3762
P.O. Box 30364
Santa Barbara, CA
Support Services
Disability Advocacy, Marriage & Family Counseling, Support Organization

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Northern California Coalition-Parents Helping Parents
408-727-5775, Ext. 139
3041 Olcott Street
Santa Clara, CA
Support Services
Marriage & Family Counseling, Support Organization, Training/Seminars

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Morgan Autism Center
(408) 241-8161
2280 Kenwood Avenue
San Jose, CA
Support Services
Education, Educational Advocacy, Marriage & Family Counseling, Support Organization, Training/Seminars

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Michael Uram, MA, LMFT
(949) 777-6694
Costa Mesa, CA
Support Services
Marriage & Family Counseling, Play Therapy, Psychological Counseling, Social Skills Training
Ages Supported
1-5 Grade,11-12 Grade,6-8 Grade,9-10 Grade,Adult,Kindergarten,Preschool

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Dr. Jose L. Fuentes
(909) 796-9300
24230 Barton Road
Loma Linda, CA
Support Services
Adult Support, Behavorial Intervention, Early Intervention, Education, Marriage & Family Counseling, Marriage & Family Counseling, Medical, Research, Research, Support Group Meetings, Therapy Providers, Training/Seminars
Ages Supported
Preschool,Kindergarten,1-5 Grade,6-8 Grade,9-10 Grade,11-12 Grade,Adult

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Kern Regional Center
(661) 327-8531
3200 North Sillect Avenue
Bakersfield, CA
Support Services
Disability Advocacy, Government/State Agency, Marriage & Family Counseling, Other, Support Organization

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How Do I Handle Marriage To A Spouse With Asperger Syndrome?

How do I handle marriage to a spouse with Asperger Syndrome?

Lisa Jo Rudy

Question: How Do I Handle Marriage to a Spouse with Asperger Syndrome?

My husband was recently diagnosed as having Asperger syndrome, a high functioning type of autism. He graduated from an Ivy League school, but his self-absorption, social awkwardness and rigid behaviours have affected our marriage with devastating emotional impact. Is there hope for improvement?

Answer: From Dr, Bob Naseef:

If there is one word that describes the reaction of a family member to the diagnosis of autism in someone you love, that word is loneliness. That's what I hear in your question. Rest assured that you are not alone in having this response. There is help for your husband as well as yourself. Now that autism is more widely recognized, adults as well as children, who may have not been identified as autistic in the past, are being diagnosed. This is particularly true for high functioning autism (HFA) and Asperger Sydrome (AS).

There is even a web site devoted to the issues faced by spouses and partners at Asperger Syndrome Partners and Individuals Resources, Encouragement & Support . There are numerous helpful articles archived there. There is also an e-mail subscription list for individuals with AS, and those who have a parent, spouse, or child with AS. Family and relational experiences, resources, survival tips, encouragement, and hope are offered there.

It is through this kind of sharing that many people help each other lighten the burdens of living and find coping strategies and solutions for many issues in relationships. Certainly it is not easy to bridge the communication gap that exists in the everyday life which you describe. Being simultaneously relieved and trapped is a treacherous dilemma. Usually with more information comes hope, so I would suggest you begin to learn more about Asperger syndrome. There are numerous books and websites. One good medical site to start at would be the PENN Social Learning Disorders Program . There you will see your husband's condition described as a social learning disorder which is a helpful way to look at his differences and the challenges that face both of you.

It is also important to look at the history of your relationship. You must have had good times together and shared positive feelings about each other. Try to recapture whatever glimmers of that you can of what brought you together. You may benefit from consultation with a mental health professional who is experienced in helping people in your kind of situation. Even if your husband won't go with you, you may gain some insight into the relationship that will help you regain some hope, and possibly change the chemistry of what is happening right now in your relationship.

From Dr. Cindy Ariel:

It is often both a major relief and a major disappointment to be diagnosed or married to someone who is diagnosed on the autism spectrum as an adult. Your hopes may b...

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